Today's
Quotation:
It is the mind which
creates the world around us,
and even though we stand
side by side in the same meadow,
my eyes will never see
what is beheld by yours,
my heart will never stir to the
emotions with which yours is touched.
George
Gissing
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Today's
Meditation:
There's
comfort in uniformity and consistency. Comfort,
however, usually is a danger sign, a signal that we're not
being challenged, that we're not growing. It tends to
be comfort that we seek, though, and that's why we've been
taught for so long that things are as they are, and that we
all see things exactly the same. People who see things
differently tend to be a threat to the uniformity and
conformity of people, and if we threaten those things, we
threaten the very fabric of our being-- most of us,
anyway.
But
your world is not my world. What I see is not the same
as what you see, even if we're standing together. Your
experiences and your likes and dislikes make your view
completely unique, just as my experiences make mine very
special.
Our
inability to see or accept this fact is one of the greatest
contributors to discord and dissatisfaction in the world,
though. We get frustrated when people don't see things
"our way," and millions of kids and adults every
day are taught to see things the teacher's way.
They're even graded as to whether or not they've adopted the
teachers' perspectives, and they're penalized with low
grades if they don't see the information in the way the
school wants them to see it.
We
have to wake up to realize that seeing things differently is
a blessing, not a curse. If someone disagrees with us,
we don't have to take that disagreement personally-- that's
the way that person sees the world. If we can't grasp
a particular concept, it's often better to move on to
something that we can grasp rather than agonizing over our
inability to see something the way someone else saw it.
We
weren't all meant to do things the same way--art and music
would be very boring if we were-- yet somehow we've bought
into the idea that we all should see the world in a similar
fashion. That's not the way it is, though-- we all see
the world in our unique way, and we should celebrate not
just our unique vision that may not fit in with someone
else's, but the unique visions of others, even though they
may not fit in with ours.
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