Today's
Meditation:
I
got into my car at 3:30 the other day, looking forward to
getting home a bit early. I turned the key, but
nothing happened. I tried a few more times, but still
nothing. I tried jumper cables, and I tried
push-starting the thing, but still, nothing. Years
ago, the situation might have stressed me out. I
probably would have gotten angry and upset and more than a
little stressed out.
The
fact was, though, that it was a nice afternoon. And
while there were other places I would rather have been,
there are nice woods and a stream right next to the parking
lot where I was stuck. It was a very nice afternoon,
and I had a chance just to relax and enjoy the weather while
I waited for the tow truck, which wasn't going to cost me
anything because of my AAA membership. And for
whatever reason, I was where I was, and getting upset
wouldn't change that a bit--it would only affect whether or
not I enjoyed the time I waited.
Besides,
who knows about the grander schemes of life? Perhaps
if I had been able to drive off when I wanted to, I might
have ended up getting into an accident that I avoided by
being where I was. Or maybe if I had arrived home
early I would have fallen down the stairs for some reason or
another. There are many possible hypothetical
situations that I could come up with, but who knows?
My
car was dead--it wasn't the end of the world. It was a
nice afternoon, and for whatever reason, I was forced to
slow down a little bit and enjoy the day. I had a
choice--I could enjoy the time I had, or I could get
stressed out about what I was missing by not being somewhere
else. When we can look at things that way, the choice
becomes pretty easy, doesn't it?
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