May 18
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Today's
quotation:
Not all of your decisions
will be correct. None of us is perfect. But if you get
into the habit of making decisions, experience will develop your
judgment to a
point where more and more of your decisions will be right.
After all, it is better
to be right 51 percent of the time and get something done, than it
is
to get nothing done because you fear to reach a decision.
H.W. Andrews
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Today's
Meditation:
This is a truth that I learned the hard way-- my
inability to make decisions hurt me quite a lot in my
early years, so I taught myself to make decisions quickly
and decisively when necessary, without trying to overthink.
After all, if I spend time thinking about something, I can
come up with at least 243 different possible decisions to
make, and I would never be able to choose between
them. Nowadays, though, when necessary I simply say,
"Okay, I'm doing this." And then I do it.
I'm not always right. It's not always the best of
all possible decisions. But at least I get something
done, and I have to say that I'm well over 51% overall
because I don't just make decisions without thinking at
all. The difference is that I weigh my choices and
then create a point at which there's no more weighing--
and
that's when I decide. It's been a very positive
trait to add to my life, and I don't spend a lot of time
agonizing or worrying about things that may or may not
result from my decisions.
It's important that we allow ourselves to reach a
decision, and then to follow that decision. We can
always change our minds later if necessary, but usually I
find that that's not necessary. If I truly consider
my options and then decide, I have to realize that any of
three or four decisions might have been just as good; they
would have had slightly different results, but the
different results wouldn't have been any worse or better.
Many of us have a hard time deciding because we think that
a different decision is the "better" one-- ours
will be wrong. But in life there's rarely one clear
answer, rarely one clear road to follow. Sometimes,
two or three or ten decisions may be just as good as each
other-- so it's important that we train ourselves to be
able to make decisions and move on with life rather than
finding ourselves stuck in one place because we're unable
to make decisions that truly need to be made.
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Questions to
consider:
What are some of the main reasons that people may have
difficulties making decisions quickly and easily and
effectively?
From where do we get the idea that there's one
"right" decision to be made in any given
situation?
How might we go about practicing our decision-making? |
For further
thought:
Few
people know this, but any decision is acceptable when you can't
decide. The trick is to make the decision right because you made
it. In other words,
when you are torn between two roads, pick one and then make the one
you
picked right. In the grand scheme of things, it doesn't
matter. If you can't
see down the road enough to know which decision to make, then no one
can
fault you for making a decision. Of course, in a pinch, you
could always flip a coin.
Joe Vitale
Life's Missing Instruction Manual
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