Today's
quotation:
Life
is difficult. This is
a great truth, one of the
greatest truths. It is a great truth because once
we
truly see this
truth, we
transcend
it. Once we truly
know that life
is difficult--once
we
truly know and accept
it--then life
is no longer difficult. Because
once
it is accepted, the fact
that life is difficult
no longer
matters.
M.
Scott Peck
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Today's
Meditation:
How
many difficulties do you find in your life? We have
problems with relationships, finances, jobs, cars,
hobbies, addictions, decision-making--in short, just about
everything. But how many of those difficulties do we
make even larger and more intense because of our
perspective, because of the way we see them? I know
that in my life, many of my most difficult moments have
been caused by my own view of situations, not by the
situations themselves. I've missed meetings at work
and have agonized all day over what the repercussions
would be, only to find out that there were none--everyone
understood why I missed. I've broken things that
belong to others, and found them to be very forgiving
after I stressed over it for a while.
I'm
growing closer to accepting that life is difficult, and I
now see most difficulties simply as a part of life and as
opportunities for me to learn and to grow as I work my way
through them, rather than as obstacles in my way that are
going to cause me many problems. Now that I accept
that fact, the difficulties seem to be fewer, and the
challenges are more manageable.
This
is going to be a good year. And yes, there will be
many difficulties in it, for you and for me. Accept
that fact, and the hardships will be fewer and less
intense. Acceptance of difficulties allows us to
relate to them in a much different way, just as acceptance
of a person allows us to relate to that person in a much
more positive manner.
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