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September
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Today's
quotation:
You owe no one as much as you owe yourself.
You owe yourself the action that opens for you the
doors of goodness, the variety, and the excitement of
effort and success, of battle and victory.
Making payment on this debt to yourself is the
exact opposite of selfishness.
You can best pay your debt to society, that has
made you what you are, by being just yourself with all
your might and as a matter of course. . . .
You fulfill the promise that lies latent within you
by keeping your promises to yourself.
David Harold Fink
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Today's
Meditation:
Why
is it that we see being self-centered as such a negative
thing? Don't we all need to be a bit selfish on a
regular basis if we're going to be of any use to the other
people in our lives? How much good can we do if
we're always tired and worn out and unrested? If
we're not at the top of our game, just how much good can
we be doing? Personally, I want to give my best when
I give, and if I don't take care of myself first, I'm not
going to be able to give much, am I?
We
all know of the saying that we're not able to love others
until we learn to love ourselves.
David
Fink says "you owe yourself" many things.
And once you pay yourself what you owe, he goes on to say,
your contribution to the world will be much greater, for
you'll be dealing with the world with abundance, not with
lacking. Taking care of yourself truly is the first
action, the base of taking care of the world in which you
live.
I
wish that we all could be satisfied with who we are, and
that we could take care of ourselves well, not neglecting
ourselves from some misguided notion that taking care of
ourselves is too selfish to do any good to anyone
else. If each person could learn to take care of him
or herself, think of how little crime we'd see, how little
jealousy or envy or rage or frustration or back
stabbing. So much of what goes on in this world
would simply go away if people would just learn this
simple lesson: take care of yourself and then you
can contribute in a very positive way to the lives of
others.
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Questions to
consider:
When was the last time that you took care of
yourself very well?
Why do we tend to see "selfishness" as a
strictly negative trait?
How might your contribution to the world change if you
were
to take good care of yourself and treat yourself as you
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For further
thought:
You
cannot fail at being yourself. A cat doesn't try
to be a tiger, and you shouldn't try to be something
you aren't. You are a
process, not a product. Your
job
is to discover what you are and to create that creature. You still won't be perfect, but success isn't about
perfection-- it is about authenticity.
You are a success
if you are being your real, authentic self.
Bernie
Siegel
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