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Without
great solitude,
no serious work is possible.
Pablo Picasso |
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What
is necessary, after all, is only this: solitude, vast inner
solitude. To walk inside yourself and meet no one for hours--that is what you
must be able to attain. To be solitary as you were when you
were a
child, when the grownups walked around, involved with matters that
seemed large and important, because they seemed so busy and
because you didn't understand a thing about what they were doing.
Rainer Maria
Rilke
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If there is a better cure for self-deception
than solitude, it has yet to be discovered.
E. Herman
I live
in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious
in the years of maturity.
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Before
you can enjoy your solitude, you have to get to know yourself--who you are, what you like to do, what raises your spirits, what
gives
you a feeling of accomplishment and exhilaration.
Phyllis Hobe
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Solitude
is simply spending time connecting with ourselves.
Solitude means we do it alone, spending time in
reflection--perhaps talking to ourselves, writing a
journal, meditating. When we practice solitude
regularly over a period of time, we develop a deep and
abiding connection with our self. We can use that
connection to alleviate isolation--from ourselves and
others.
Jan Johnson Drantell
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Being
alone gives us the space to listen again to our
inner rhythms, to embrace our inner selves.
Patricia Hoolihan
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Living
alone, though it may not be the state you ultimately
desire for yourself, affords an unparalleled opportunity
to know yourself, to be yourself, and to develop yourself
as a unique and interesting individual.
Phyllis Hobe
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Self-renewal
usually begins
quietly. The lonely griever
becomes
a person with a
confident solitude. . . . In
contrast to loneliness,
which
mourns the loss, solitude is
positive aloneness, a
confident
presence of
self-suffering.
Fredric M. Hudson
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Alone, but not lonely, I postulate philosophies,
explore my soul,
and, in the modesty of solitude, expose my love and angers, wishes
and disappointments. I examine each, and put it into its
place. Alone,
I redefine my appreciation of the people with whom I live.
Joan Mills
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Certain
springs are tapped only when we are alone. . . .
women need solitude in order to find again the true essence
of themselves: that firm strand which will be the
indispensable
center of a whole web of human relationships.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh |
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In
many societies, voluntary isolation from others is considered
necessary
for the completion of certain phases of personal growth.
Adolescent males
entering adulthood in certain tribal cultures are expected to wander
alone
in the forest, mountains, or desert for as long as several months at
a time.
During this period the solitary wanderer is instructed to
communicate with
the Divine, compose a song, or experience a magic dream. Those
who
return without their dream may be sent back into the mountains
and told to return when they are successful.
Barbara Powell
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I have to be alone very often. I'd be quite happy
if I spent from Saturday
night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That's how I
refuel.
Audrey Hepburn |
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I prize
the privilege of being alone.
Carl Rogers |
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You need
solitude if you are to fulfill your promises.
Francis Steloff
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If
one is to know oneself, then periods of solitude
should be courted, planned, and embraced.
Mary Kay Blakely
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Cherish
your solitude. Take trains by yourself to places you have
never
been. Sleep out alone under the stars. Learn how to
drive a stick shift.
Go so far away that you stop being afraid of not coming back.
Say no
when you don’t want to do something. Say yes if your
instincts are
strong, even if everyone around you disagrees. Decide whether
you
want to be liked or admired. Decide if fitting in is more
important
than finding out what you’re doing here. Believe in kissing.
Eve Ensler |
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Great
minds are like eagles, and build their nest in some lofty solitude.
. . .
People can be themselves only so long as we are alone, and if we do
not love solitude, we will not love freedom, for it is only
when we are alone that we are really free.
Artur Schopenhauer |
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If
you are alone you belong entirely to yourself. If you are
accompanied
by even one companion you belong only half to yourself or even less
in
proportion to the thoughtlessness of his conduct and if you have
more
than one companion you will fall more deeply into the same plight.
Leonardo da Vinci |
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In
solitude one can achieve a good relationship with oneself.
May Sarton |
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Whatever those unacquainted
with it may think, solitude and utter
loneliness are far from being devoid of charm. Words cannot
convey
the almost voluptuous sweetness of the feelings experienced. . .
Mind
and senses develop their sensibility in this contemplative life made
up
of continual observations and reflections. Does one become a
visionary or, rather, is it not that one has been blind until then?
Alexandra David-Neel |
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One lives and endures one's life with others,
within matrices,
but it is only alone, truly alone that one bursts apart, springs
forth.
Maria Isabel Barreno |
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In
order to get to know oneself, a person needs to be
alone with his or her thoughts now and then.
Richard Triumpho |
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I
love being by myself. And as I grow older, I love that more
than anything else. There are so many things
to think about and work out.
Gwendolyn Brooks |
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We
live, in fact, in a world starved for solitude, silence, and
private:
and therefore starved for meditation and true friendship.
C.S. Lewis
The Weight of Glory |
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The most important education you get is your
own--
the one you learn in solitude.
Erica Jong
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Being
alone gives us the space to listen again to our
inner rhythms, to embrace our inner selves.
Patricia Hoolihan
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It
is only in solitude that men and women can come to know
the happiness that is like the delight of children in nothing at
all.
John Cowper Powys
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To love solitude and to seek it does
not mean constantly traveling
from one geographical possibility to another. A person becomes
a
solitary at the moment when, no matter what may be one's external
surroundings, one is suddenly aware of one's own inalienable
solitude
and sees that he or she will never be anything but solitary.
From that
moment, solitude is not potential--it is actual.
Thomas Merton
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Retreating
into oneself to find purpose can be like straddling a boat
leaving the dock; pulled in opposite directions by the intense
desire of the mind for human involvement and the equally intense
need of the soul for its own company. In the sheer immensity
of
solitude, when one can no longer draw energy from external
sources, we come to see how much of what we habitually call
meaningful purpose is merely the evasion of sitting still and
meeting what is most difficult for us to receive with compassion--
our own pain.
Dawna Markova
I Will Not Die an Unlived Life
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We need periods of being by ourselves—alone.
Sometimes a fortnight
or even a week will
do wonders for one, unless he or she has drawn
too
heavily upon the account.
The simple custom, moreover, of taking an
hour, or even a half hour, alone in the quiet,
in the midst of the daily
routine of life, would
be the source of inestimable gain
for countless
numbers.
Ralph Waldo
Trine
The Wayfarer on the Open
Road
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Against the love of pleasure,
effective beyond all else is solitude. For
those who put out of sight the things that are worldly lose the
desire for them.
Moses H. Luzzatto |
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To live a
spiritual life we must first find the courage to enter
into the desert of loneliness and change it by gentle and
persistent efforts into a garden of solitude.
Henri J. Nouwen |
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We
must become so alone, so utterly alone, that we withdraw into our
innermost self. It is a way of bitter suffering. But then our
solitude is
overcome, we are no longer alone, for we find that our innermost
self
is the spirit, that it is God, the indivisible. And suddenly we find
ourselves
in the midst of the world, yet undisturbed by its multiplicity, for
our
innermost soul we know ourselves to be one with all being.
Hermann Hesse |
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When I
loved myself enough, I began to feed my hunger for solitude
and revel in the inexplicable contentment that is its companion.
Kim McMillen
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