self-love
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When you are content to be simply
yourself
and don't compare or
compete, everyone will respect you.
Lao Tzu
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The poise of a plant, the bended tree
recovering itself from the strong wind,
the vital resources
of every vegetable and animal, are also demonstrations
of
the self-sufficing, and therefore self-relying soul.
All history from its
highest to its trivial passages is the
various record of this power.
Ralph Waldo
Emerson
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If you would have your offspring be
something in the world, teach
them to depend on
themselves. Let each learn that it is by close and
strenuous application each must rise-- that one must, in
short, make
oneself, and be architect of one's own
fortune.
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The
highest manifestation of life consists in this: that a being
governs
its own actions. A thing which is always subject to the direction
of
another is somewhat of a dead thing.
Thomas Aquinas
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Here must thou be, O man,
Strength to thyself — no helper hast thou here —
Here keepest thou thy individual state:
No other can divide with thee this work,
No secondary hand can intervene
To fashion this ability. 'Tis thine,
The prime and vital principle is thine
In the recesses of thy nature, far
From any reach of outward fellowship,
Else 'tis not thine at all.
William Wordsworth
The Prelude
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The proverb warns that, "You should not bite
the hand that feeds you."
But maybe you should, if it prevents you from feeding yourself.
Thomas Stephen Szasz
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I care for myself.
The more solitary, the
more friendless,
the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself.
Charlotte Brontë
Jane Eyre
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Real
adulthood is the result
of two qualities: self-discipline
and self-reliance. The process of
developing them together in
balance is called maturing.
J.W. Jepson
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Self-reliance is the
only road to true freedom,
and being one's own person is its ultimate reward.
Patricia Sampson
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Associate with
the noblest people you can find; read the
best books;
live with the mighty. But learn to be happy alone. Rely upon
your
own energies, and so not wait for, or depend on other
people.
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country [America] was not built by people who relied on
somebody else to take care of them. It was built by people
who relied on themselves, who dared to shape their own
lives, who had enough courage to blaze new trails--enough
confidence in themselves to take the necessary risks.
J. Ollie Edmunds
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Nasreddin brought a bow and arrows with him
to the country fair, and his students all came to see their
teacher compete in the archery contest. Like all other
contestants, Nasreddin was given three shots at the
target. Before he took his first shot, Nasreddin put
on the kind of hat a soldier wears and stood up very
straight. Then he pulled the bow back hard and
fired. Nasreddin missed the target completely, and the
crowd laughed mightily at him.
Nasreddin picked up the bow once more and drew it
back. This time he used much less strength, and
although the arrow flew straight at the target, it fell far
short.
Nasreddin had only his third shot left. He simply
turned to face the target and fired the third arrow.
It hit dead center, and the whole crowd went crazy!
Everyone wanted to know how he made the last shot after not
even having come close with the first two.
"I'll tell you," Nasreddin said.
"For the first shot, I was imagining I was a soldier
and a terrible enemy faced me. Fear caused the arrow
to fly high over the target. When I took the second
shot, I was thinking like a man who had missed his first one
and was so nervous he could not concentrate. He was
weak with worry, and the shot was weak, too."
Nasreddin paused. Finally a courageous soul spoke
up. "And what about the third one? Who
fired that arrow?"
"Oh," said Nasreddin. "That was
me!"
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Over the years, Americans in particular have been all
too willing to
squander their hard-earned independence and freedom
for the illusion
of feeling safe under someone else's authority. The
concept of
self-sufficiency has been undermined in value over a
scant few
generations. The vast majority of the population seems to
look
down their noses upon self-reliance as some quaint dusty relic,
entertained only by the hyper-paranoid or those hopelessly
incapable
of fitting into mainstream society.
Cody Lundin
When All Hell Breaks Loose: Stuff You
Need To Survive When
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best help that benevolence and philanthropy can give
is that which induces everybody to help himself.
Calvin Coolidge
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If
we expected self-reliance of family groups, if we expected hardiness
and resilience and initiative on the part of individuals, and if we
rewarded
initiative instead of dependence on government, we would not only
ameliorate
many of the family-related social problems we see at present, but we
would
also reduce our vulnerability to terrorism. People who are hardy,
resilient, and self reliant are a lot harder to terrorize.
Bernard Levin
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You can't hang around waiting for somebody else to
pull your strings.
Destiny's what you make of it. You have to face
whatever life throws
at you. And if it throws more than you'd like,
more than you think you
can handle? Well then you just have to find
the heroism within yourself
and play out the hand you've been dealt.
The universe never sets a
challenge that can't be met. You just need
to believe in yourself
in order to find the strength to face it.
Darren Shan
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When
you stand and overcome a significant setback, you'll find an
increasing inner confidence and self-assurance that has been created
by conquering defeat. Absorbing and overcoming this kind of
punishment
engenders a sober, steely toughness that results in a hardened sense
of
independence and a personal belief that you can
take on anything, survive and win.
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Depend not on another, but lean instead on
yourself.
True happiness is born of self-reliance.
The Laws of Manu |
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Humility
is the part of wisdom, and is most becoming in people.
But let no one discourage self-reliance; it is, of all the rest,
the greatest quality of true human strength.
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The
difficulties, hardships and trials of life, the obstacles one
encounters
on the road to fortune are positive blessings. They knit the muscles
more firmly, and teach self-reliance. Peril is the element
in which power is developed.
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Be independent of the good opinion of other
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Abraham Maslow |
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Self-reliance is only
a part of the picture. When we carry it
to the extreme, we cut ourselves off from others and
from the nourishment we need from them.
Melvyn Kinder
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Rely
upon yourself, trust yourself, and others will trust you
unquestioningly. . . . For the self-helping person,
all doors are flung open.
Fred van Amburgh
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Self-confidence
without self-reliance is as useless as a cooking
recipe without food. Self-confidence sees the possibilities of
the
individual; self-reliance realizes them. Self-confidence sees
the angel
in the unhewn block of marble; self-reliance carves it out for
oneself.
William G. Jordan
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True
self-reliance does not mean reliance on one's physical strength;
it means reliance on something mightier, something which is less
perishable. . . It means trusting in the spiritual.
Paramananda |
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Once
you really know that nobody can take from you what
is really yours, you stop trying to protect it.
Theodora Wells |
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If you are an adult, you are
responsible for your life and well-being.
No one owes you the fulfillment of your needs or wants; no one is
here on earth to serve you. If you respect the principle of
self-ownership,
you understand that no one else owns you and that you do not own
anyone else. Only on this understanding can there be peace
on earth and good will among human beings.
Nathaniel
Branden
Self-Esteem
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Claiming self-reliance represents one of the most significant turning
points in a human being’s evolution. It signals the crucial shift from
dependence on outer authority to reliance on inner knowing. From
infancy you were taught that people outside you know more about
how you should live than you know. Parents, elder siblings, teachers,
priests, and the government were supposedly all smarter than you; if
you want to be happy and successful, you must listen to what they tell
you to do. Eventually each of us comes to the point where we realize
that how we were taught to live is not the way we were born to live.
Mega-successful British playwright Tom Stoppard wrote, “It’s the
best possible time to be alive, when almost everything you thought
you knew is wrong!” At a crucial instant each of us starts trusting our
inner guidance more than others’ opinions or directives.
Alan Cohen
The Tao Made
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