You cannot hope to build a better world
without improving the individuals.
To that end each of us must work for his or her
own improvement, and at the same time
share a general responsibility for all humanity,
our particular duty being to aid those to whom
we think we can be most useful.

Marie Curie

  community - community 3
community 4

My duty towards my neighbors is to love them
as myself, and to do all people as I would
they should do unto me.

Book of Common Prayer

  

Make it a rule, and pray to God
to help you to keep it, never,
if possible, to lie down at night
without being able to say:
"I have made one human being
at least a little wiser,
or a little happier, or at least
a little better this day."

Charles Kingsley

 

Entirely by yourself as an individual
you can go to hell, but alone you cannot
go to heaven, for to go to heaven we
need what one may call the natural grace
of the mutual dependence on
each other here on earth.

Francis Devas

  

    

Albert Schweitzer

Whoever is spared personal pain must feel themselves called to help in diminishing the pain of others.  We must all carry our share of the misery
which lies upon the world.

Love is the doorway through which the human soul passes from selfishness to service and from solitude to kinship
with all humankind.

Anonymous

  

What is brotherhood?  Brotherhood is giving to others the rights you want
to keep for yourself. . . giving to the individual in another group
the same dignity, the same full appreciation that you want to have yourself.

Everett R. Clinchy

  

  

Let us. . . touch the dying, the poor, the lonely and the unwanted
according to the graces we have received and let us not be ashamed
or slow to do the humble work.

Mother Teresa

  

We are born in relation, we live in relation,
we die in relation. There is, literally,
no such human place as simply "inside myself."
Nor is any person, creed, ideology, or
movement entirely "outside myself."

Carter Heyward

  
  

For a person to argue, "I do not go to church; I pray alone,"
is no wiser than if he or she should say,
"I have no use for symphonies; I believe only in solo music."

George A. Buttrick

   

Martin Luther King, Jr.

The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities
that make all people human and,
therefore, brothers and sisters.

No one may forsake their neighbors when they are in trouble.  Everybody is under obligation
to help and support their neighbors as
they would themselves like to be helped.

Martin Luther

  
Billy Graham

The most eloquent prayer is the prayer through hands that heal and bless.
The highest form of worship is the worship of unselfish Christian service.
The greatest form of praise is the sound of consecrated feet
seeking out the lost and helpless.

  

The true foundation of the brotherhood of humankind is belief in the knowledge
that God is the Father of humankind. For us, therefore, brotherhood is
not only a generous impulse but also a divine command.

Harry S. Truman

    
  
The worst sin towards our fellow creatures
is not to hate them, but to be indifferent
to them: that's the essence of inhumanity.

George Bernard Shaw
  

I've always had major problems with the concept of community, for I've never felt a part of one. Even when I've had great opportunities to meet people, to develop friendships, to become a part of something bigger than myself, I've pulled back, never feeling that I belonged. The source of this feeling is very simple--since my father was in the military, we moved around constantly. I went to four grade schools, two junior high schools, and three high schools. We never got the chance to be included, and my father's desire to live off base affected us, too, for we weren't even able to be a part of the military community, and we didn't live in one place long enough to be a part of any civilian community. I don't say these things as a complaint, but as an observation--because it's taken me many years to become comfortable with the concept of belonging, to allow myself to belong in spite of my fear of things coming to an end, community is now extremely important to me. The people I meet who have always been a part of something often take community for granted, or even disdain the "boredom" of being involved with the same people for so long.

But our culture values independence and isolation far too much, it seems to me--we have a hard time making ourselves part of things, of making ourselves responsible to others, and trusting others to be there for us. Sure, there's pain involved if we get hurt, but there's far more pain in isolation. I love community because God gave us other people to live with, not to pull away from, and I learn so much from others that I can't imagine my life without the learning I've gained from getting to know other people. But community doesn't work without commitment--not the lukewarm type of commitment that many see as the ideal, but a strong commitment that lets others know they can count on you.

In retrospect, I see one of the greatest problems of my own shying away from community as the fact that I didn't allow people to get to know me--I kept myself hidden, isolated, and alone, and all that I had to teach was useless, for no one ever heard it.  I've spent many years trying to develop the kind of confidence and strong self-image that would allow me to share what I have to share, and I'm glad to say that I'm much better at it now than I was just a few years ago, but I do still have quite a ways to go.

We lose our ability to live fully if we neglect or ignore our responsibility to the other people who share this planet with us.  We simply cannot reach our full potential without the insights and observations that other people--our teachers--have to give us.  We cannot feel whole until we are helping other people to reach for their potential and to grow as strong as they can grow.  We do need down time, and we do need time to ourselves, but we very much need to acknowledge our ties to our fellow human beings and act as if those people meant more to us than our jobs or pets or cars do.  They are much more important than anything material that we ever can get our hands on or strive for.

tdw

     
When you ignore your soul's destiny, when you get caught up in your own self-interests and forget
to care for others, you will not feel "right."  Instead, you will feel empty and unfulfilled.
During these times, you are neglecting your soul--you are depriving it of nourishment. . . .
seek something outside your nine-to-five job as an additional source of fulfillment
and as a way to feel the joy of helping others.  You can do any number of things
to fulfill this goal--volunteer at a community hotline, coach a Little League team,
donate your time to a public school, visit the sick.  Whatever you choose,
you will gain a sense that you are giving of yourself, that you are sharing yourself
with the world, that you are fulfilling the destiny of your soul. 

Rabbi Harold Kushner

  
  
  
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The race of humankind would perish did they cease to aid each other.
We cannot exist without mutual help.
All therefore that need aid have a right to ask it from their fellow human;
and no one who has the power of granting can refuse it without guilt.

Sir Walter Scott
  

It is the individual who is not interested in his or her fellow people who has
the greatest difficulties in life and and provides the greatest injury to others. 
It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.

Alfred Adler

  
   

The entire population of the universe,
with one trifling exception, is composed of others.

John Andrew Holmes

  

A person is called selfish not for pursuing
his or her own good, but for neglecting
his or her neighbor's.

Richard Whately

Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world.  So long as you can sweeten another's pain, life is not in vain.

Helen Keller

 

 

A little friendship, a little sympathy, a little sociability, a little human toil. . .
is needed in every nook and corner.  Therefore search and see
if there is not some place where you may invest your humanity.

Albert Schweitzer

 
Perhaps the clearest and deepest meaning of brotherhood is the ability
to imagine yourself in the other person's position,
and then treat that person as if you were him or her.
This form of brotherhood takes a lot of imagination,
a great deal of sympathy, and a tremendous amount of understanding.

Obert C. Tanner

  

A woman once told me that she did not feel the need to reach out to those
around her because she prayed every day.  Surely, this was enough.
But a prayer is about our relationship to God; a blessing is about our
relationship to the spark of God in one another.  God may not need our attention
as badly as the person next to us on the bus or behind us in line in the supermarket.
Everyone in the world matters, and so do their blessings.  When we bless
others, we offer them refuge from an indifferent world.

Rachel Naomi Remen

  
Treasure each other in the recognition that we do not know
how long we shall have each other.

Joshua Loth Liebman
  

I am personally thankful that we live together in a large moral house
even if we do not drink at the same fountain of faith.   The world we
experience together is one world, God's world, and our world,
and the problems we share are common human problems.
So we can talk together, try to understand each other,
and help each other.

Lewis B. Smedes

   

   

More than ever we are aware of the ties that bind us as opposed to
the things that keep us separate.  The interconnection of all humanity
grows clearer each day as the effects of the international nature
of the world grow clearer.  Charles Dickens calls us "fellow passengers
to the grave," as we're all here to do our best while we are alive
to make this world a better place.
  What does this mean to us?
Our generations, more than any that preceded us, are learning about
our responsibilities to our fellow human beings, no matter where
they are, what their race, or what their beliefs.  We are learning
the necessity of being truly human, of holding life sacred and
treating others as if they truly matter, for they do.

tom walsh

   
The task that remains is to cope with our interdependence--to see
ourselves reflected in every other human being,
and to respect and honor our differences.

Melba Patillo Beals

   

  

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