I belong to the people I love, and they
belong to me--they, and the love
and loyalty I give them, form my identity
far more than any word or group ever could.

Veronica Roth
Allegiant

 

But by identities and integrity I do not mean only our noble features, or the good deeds we do, or the brave faces we wear to conceal our confusions and complexities.  Identity and integrity have as much to do with our shadows and limits, or wounds and fears, as with our strengths and potentials.

Parker J. Palmer
The Courage to Teach

     
He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.

Gabriel García Márquez
Love in the Time of Cholera
   

You will be required to do wrong no matter where you go. It is the basic condition of life, to be required to violate your own identity. At some time, every creature which lives must do so. It is the ultimate shadow, the defeat of creation; this is the curse at work, the curse that feeds on all life. Everywhere in the universe.

Philip K. Dick
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?

   
If you try to view yourself through the lenses that others offer you, all you will see are distortions; your own light and beauty will become blurred, awkward, and ugly. Your sense of inner beauty has to remain a very private thing.

John O'Donohue
Anam Cara

  

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.

Harvey Fierstein

   

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I am a person before I am anything else. I never say I am a writer
I never say I am an artist. . . I am a person who does those things.

Edward Gorey

   

We can spend our lives letting the world tell us who we are.
Sane or insane.  Saints or sex addicts.  Heroes or victims.
Letting history tell us how good or bad we are.  Letting our
past decide our future.  Or we can decide for ourselves.  And
maybe it's our job to invent something better.

Chuck Palahniuk
Choke

    

Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's
opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.

Oscar Wilde

    
It is easier to live through someone else than to complete yourself. The
freedom to lead and plan your own life is frightening if you have never
faced it before.  It is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there
is no answer to the question "who am I" except the voice inside herself.

Betty Friedan
   

I feel with some passion that what we truly are is private, and almost infinitely
complex, and ambiguous, and both external and internal, and double- or triple-
or multiply natured, and largely mysterious even to ourselves; and furthermore
that what we are is only part of us, because identity, unlike "identity," must
include what we do.  And I think that to find oneself and every aspect of this
complexity reduced in the public mind to one property that apparently
subsumes all the rest ("gay," "black, "Muslim," whatever) is to be the
victim of a piece of extraordinary intellectual vulgarity.

Philip Pullman

   

She might be without country, without nation, but inside her there
was still a being that could exist and be free, that could simply say
I am without adding a this, or a that, without saying I am Indian,
Guyanese, English, or anything else in the world.

Sharon Maas
Of Marriageable Age

   
   
Sometimes we fight who we are, struggling against ourselves and our
natures. But we must learn to accept who we are and appreciate who
we become. We must love ourselves for what and
who we are, and believe in our talents.

Harley King
   

First of all, although people have a common destiny, each individual also has
to work out his or her own personal salvation for oneself in fear and trembling.
We can help one another to find the meaning of life, no doubt.  But in the last
analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his or her own life and
for "finding him- or herself."  If we persist in shifting our responsibility to
somebody else, we fail to find out the meaning of our own existence.  You
cannot tell me who I am and I cannot tell you who you are.  If you do not
know your own identity, who is going to identify you?

Thomas Merton

    

Not only is there often a right and wrong, but what goes around does
come around, Karma exists, chickens do come home to roost, and
as my mother, Phyllis, liked to say, “There is always a day of reckoning.”
The good among the great understand that every choice we make adds to
the strength or weakness of our spirits—ourselves, or to use an old
fashioned word for the same idea, our souls. That is every human’s life
work: to construct an identity bit by bit, to walk a path step by step,
to live a life that is worthy of something higher, lighter, more
fulfilling, and maybe even everlasting.

Donald Van de Mark
The Good Among the Great

   

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Most of us are not raised to actively encounter our destiny.  We may not
know that we have one.  As children, we are seldom told we have a place
in life that is uniquely ours alone.  Instead, we are encouraged to believe
that our life should somehow fulfill the expectations of others, that we will
(or should) find our satisfactions as they have found theirs.  Rather than
being taught to ask ourselves who we are, we are schooled to ask others.
We are, in effect, trained to listen to others' versions of ourselves.  We are
brought up in our life as told to us by someone else!  When we survey our
lives, seeking to fulfill our creativity, we often see we had a dream that went
glimmering because we believed, and those around us believed, that the
dream was beyond our reach.  Many of us would have been, or at least might
have been, done, tried something, if. . . If we had known who we really were.

Julia Cameron
  

My wish simply is to live my life as fully as I can. In both our work and
our leisure, I think, we should be so employed. And in our time this means
that we must save ourselves from the products that we are
asked to buy in order, ultimately, to replace ourselves.

Wendell Berry
The Art of the Commonplace

   

Be not another, if you can be yourself.

Paracelsus

  
Many of us are so deeply identified with our ideas that when we
have a competitive encounter, we risk losing more than the debate:
we risk losing our sense of self.

Parker J. Palmer
The Courage to Teach
 

Who are we but the stories we tell ourselves, about ourselves, and believe?

Scott Turow
Ordinary Heroes

   

 

   







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Over the years, I have come to realize that the greatest trap in our life
is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection. Success,
popularity, and power can indeed present a great temptation, but their
seductive quality often comes from the way they are part of the much
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thinking, "Well, that proves once again that I am a nobody. . . I am no
good. . .  I deserve to be pushed aside, forgotten, rejected, and
abandoned." Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life
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Being the Beloved constitutes the core truth of our existence.

Henri J.M. Nouwen
   

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the true self.  Every other identity is illusion.

Brennan Manning
Abba's Child

  

I believe that true identity is found. . . in creative activity springing from
within.  It is found, paradoxically, when one loses oneself.  We can best
refind ourselves by losing ourselves in some kind of creative activity of our own.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh

  



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