It is an absolute perfection. . .
to get the very most
out of one's individuality.


Michel de Montaigne

   
I know now that most people are so closely concerned with themselves
that they are not aware of their own individuality; I can see myself, and
it has helped me to say what I want to say. . . in paint.

Georgia O'Keeffe

      

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by
the tribe.  If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened.  But
no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.

Friedrich Nietzsche

  

Individuality is freedom lived.

John Dos Passos

   
I am shocked to have discovered this morning that I am the only me there
is.  I think this is the key to everything--compassion, kindness, trust of life,
mystery.  A genuine and not inflated sense of importance and self-value. 
I've spent most of my life comparing myself to other men.  Are they ahead
of me in Forbes?  Do they sit on more powerful boards?  Are they smarter?
Sexier?  Do they have more hair?  And all the time there is this other way
of seeing things.  I am not one of the motors my company produces by the
hundreds of thousands.  I am handmade.  Less than perfect but more a work
of creation than a product of technology.  And I am not alone in this.
Everyone is the only "me" there is.

unattributed (an unknown cancer survivor)
related by Rachel Naomi Remen
   

The diversity of the family should be a cause of love
and harmony, as it is in music where many different notes
blend together in the making of a perfect chord.

from the Baha'i Scriptures

   
   
   

Individuality is either the mark of genius or the reverse.
Mediocrity finds safety in standardization.

Frederick E. Crane

  

The more we let each voice sing out
with its own true tone, the richer
will be the diversity
of the chant in unison.

Angelus Silesius
  
  
Individuality is only possible if
it unfolds from wholeness.

David Bohm

   

Since everybody is an individual, nobody can be you.
You are unique.  No one can tell you how to use your time.
It is yours.  Your life is your own.  You mold it.  You make it.

Eleanor Roosevelt

   

  

Individuality is founded in feeling; and the recesses
of feeling, the darker, blinder strata of character,
are the only places in the world in which
we catch real fact in the making.

William James

  

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:
This is me damn it!  I look the way I look, think the way I think,
feel the way I feel, love the way I love!  I am a whole
complex package.  Take me... or leave me.  Accept me - or walk away!
Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't
fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me
to fit your mold.  If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad--
you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.

Stacey Charter

  

This I believe:  That the free, exploring mind of the individual human
is the most valuable thing in the world.  And this I would fight for:
The freedom of the mind to take any direction it wishes, undirected.
And this I must fight against:  Any idea, religion, or government
which limits or destroys the individual.

John Steinbeck

  
   

  
Had I to carve an inscription on my tombstone
I would ask for none other than "The Individual."

Søren Kierkegaard

   

Be yourself.  Above all, let who you are, what you are,
what you believe, shine through every sentence
you write, every piece you finish.


John Jakes

  
Articles and book excerpts on individuality:

Getting away from Comparisons      Alan Loy McGinnis

   

I think everyone is unique.  We know that.  The only way you find out what you are
is by trying everything, and then at some point you take what you are, which
is unique.  Don't ever try to mimic anybody, because you will only be second best.
You can never outshine the thing you are trying to mimic, so don't ever do that.
Don't idol worship.  Finally, be yourself.  Then you are going to be really unique and
exciting.  People are going to beat a path to your door if you polish your inner self.

Robert D. Ballard

   

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We are all born originals.  Why is it
so many of us die copies?

Edward Young

   

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Maybe someone in your life has said hurtful things about your personality,
your appearance, or your abilities and you've altered yourself for their
approval.  Understand, just because somebody says something about you,
doesn't make it true.  Just as I told my friend, I'm telling you today:  You are
created in the image of Almighty God and He gave you the gifts and
personality you have for a purpose.  You may not be like everyone else, but
that's okay.  Be who God made you to be and do not be defined
by the opinions of other people.

Victoria Osteen
   

Since the beginning of time, never has there been another with my mind,
my heart, my eyes, my ears, my hands, my hair, my mouth.  None that
came before, none that live today, and none that come tomorrow can
walk and talk and move and think exactly like me.  All people are my
brothers and sisters yet I am different from each.  I am a unique creature.

Og Mandino
The World's Greatest Salesman

   

There is a vitality, a life force, an energy that is translated through you;
and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique.


Martha Graham

   

   
Like snowflakes, the human pattern is never cast twice.  We are
uncommonly and marvelously intricate in thought and action.

Alice Childress
   

If you violate the true nature of individuals, they will suffer and in
some ways die.  Accept and nourish individuality in yourself and
others, and you will harvest a rich gathering of talent and stimulation.

Vivian Elisabeth Glyck
12 Lessons on Life I Learned from My Garden

   
   

   

   

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