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Acceptance is the truest
kinship with humanity.

G.K. Chesterton

   

Today I know that I cannot control the ocean tides.  I can only
go with the flow. . . . When I struggle and try to organize the Atlantic
to my specifications, I sink.  If I flail and thrash and growl and grumble,
I go under.  But, if I let go and float, I am borne aloft.

Marie Stilkind

     
If we rail and kick against it and grow bitter, we won't change the inevitable; but we will change ourselves.  I know.  I have tried it.  I once refused to accept an inevitable situation with which I was confronted.  I played the fool and railed
against it, and rebelled.  I turned my nights into hells of insomnia.  I brought upon myself everything I didn't want.  Finally, after a year of self-torture, I had to accept what I knew from the outset I couldn't possible alter.

Dale Carnegie
   

Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly.  Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate, or despise, serves to defeat us in the end.  What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind.  Every moment is a golden one for those who have the vision to recognize it as such.

Henry Miller

   
Acceptance says, True, this is my situation at the moment.
I'll look unblinkingly at the reality of it.  But I'll also open my hands
to accept willingly whatever a loving Father sends me.

Catherine Marshall

   

Some people confuse acceptance with apathy but there's
all the difference in the world.  Apathy fails to distinguish
what can and cannot be helped; acceptance makes the distinction.
Apathy paralyzes the will-to-action; acceptance frees it
by relieving it of impossible burdens.

Arthur Gordon

     

Of course there is no formula for success
except, perhaps, an unconditional acceptance
of life and what it brings.

Artur Rubinstein

Acceptance is observation of life and
suspension of judgment about whether what
is happening is good or bad, right or wrong.

Ron Smotherman

   
     

   

Ask not that events should happen as you will, but let your will be
that events should happen as they do, and you shall have peace.  

Epictetus

   

Let us learn to accept ourselves--accept the
truth that we are capable in some directions
and limited in others, that genius is rare,
that mediocrity is a portion of almost all of us,
but that we can contribute from the storehouse
of our skills to the enrichment of our common life.

Joshua Liebman
  
  
To teach people how to live without certainty
and yet without being paralyzed by hesitation
is the lesson of learning acceptance.

anonymous

   

Acceptance is a letting-go process.  You let go of your
wishes and demands that life can be different.  It's a conscious choice.

Gary Emery

  

  

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I
cannot change, the courage to change the things
I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Reinhold Niebuhr

   
   
Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgement of the facts
of a situation, then deciding what you're going to do about it.

Kathleen Casey Theisen
   

The survival of the fittest is the ageless law of nature, but the fittest are rarely the strong.  The fittest are those endowed with the qualifications for adaptation, the ability to accept the inevitable and conform to the unavoidable, to harmonize with existing or changing conditions.

Dave. E Smalley

The first step toward change is acceptance.  Once you accept yourself, you open the door to change.  That's all you have to do.  Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.

Will Garcia
(AIDS patient)

   
Everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change.
So suffering must become love.  That is the mystery.

Katherine Mansfield
   

Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are,
ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are.  This is
to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can even
begin. . . . Provided we strenuously avoid turning these realistic surveys of the
facts of life into unrealistic alibis for apathy or defeatism, they can be
the sure foundation upon which increased emotional health
and therefore spiritual progress can be built.

As Bill Sees It

    

Acceptance of what has happened is the first step
to overcoming the consequence of any misfortune.

William James

  

I accept life unconditionally.  Most people ask for happiness on condition.
Happiness can only be felt if you don't set any condition.

Artur Rubinstein

   

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Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make
the best of it, as it is, is the only way of being happy.

Jennie Jerome Churchill

Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence,
and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.

Helen Keller

My advice to you is not to inquire why or whither,
but just enjoy your ice cream while it's on your plate.

Thornton Wilder

  
  

There are people who live lives little different than the beasts,
and I don't mean that badly.  I mean that they accept whatever happens
day to day without struggle or question or regret.  To them
things just are, like the earth and sky and seasons.

Celeste de Blasis

  
God does not make clones.  Each person is different, a tribute
to God's creativity.  If we are to love our neighbors as ourselves,
we must accept people as they are and not demand
that they conform to our own image.

Henry Fehren

  

   

It just ain't possible to explain some things.  It's interesting to wonder on them
and do some speculation, but the main thing is you have to accept it--take it
for what it is, and get on with your growing.

Jim Dodge

   

God asks no person whether he or she will accept life.
That is not the choice.  You must take it.  The only question is how.

Henry Ward Beecher

   

Growth begins when we start to accept our own weaknesses.

Jean Vanier

   

   
Articles and book excerpts on Acceptance:

Accepting Yourself Unconditionally      Brian Tracy
As Is      Gail Pursell Elliott

Acknowledge the Totality of Your Being      Richard Carlson

Differences      Iyanla Vanzant

Look at Life through the Windshield      Patti LaBelle

Now and Zen      Sylvia Boorstein

The River of Feelings      Thich Nhat Hanh

The Gerbil Story      Melody Beattie

The Waiver      Melody Beattie

The Fourth Tuesday:  We Talk about Death      Mitch Albom

Your Hidden Potential      Ari Kiev

Living with the Heart of a Child      Joe Mazzella

It's a Mistake!      tom walsh

Living Fully      Laura Russell

Thoughts on the Serenity Prayer      Ray Whiting

Snowy Day Gifts      Joe Mazzella

The Value of Acceptance      Janice Hain

Where I Am      tom walsh

    

    
   

Anything in life that we don't accept will simply
make trouble for us until we make peace with it.

Shakti Gawain

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Acceptance of one's life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not
mean running away from the struggle.  On the contrary it means accepting
it as it comes. . . .  To accept is to say yes to life in its entirety.

Paul Tournier
   

Accepting that we have weaknesses becomes a strength.

Joseph M. Marshall III
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