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Look
at everything as though you were seeing it
either for the first or
last time. Then your time
on earth will be filled with glory.
Betty Smith |
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Stop
a minute to contrast your keen interest in your own affairs
with your
mild concern about anything else. Realize, then, that
everybody else in the
world feels exactly the same way! Then you will have
grasped the only
solid foundation for interpersonal relationships; namely,
that success in dealing
with people depends on a sympathetic grasp of the other
person's viewpoint.
Kenneth M. Goode
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Help
others solve their problems; standing farther away,
you can often
see
matters more clearly than they do. . .
The greatest service you can
render someone else is
helping him or her help themselves.
Baltasar Gracian
Climb up on
some hill at sunrise. Everybody needs perspective once in a while,
and you'll find it there.
Robb
Sagendorph
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A youth is to
be regarded with respect. How do you know
that his or her future
will not be equal to our present?
Confucius
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Somebody
was saying to Picasso that he ought to make pictures
of things the way they are--objective pictures. He
mumbled that
he wasn't quite sure what that would be. The person
who was
bullying him produced a photograph of his wife from his
wallet
and said, "There, you see, that is a picture of how she
really is." Picasso looked at it and said, "She is rather small,
isn't she? And flat?"
Gregory Bateson
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Perspective
is one of the most important aspects of our lives. How we see things
determines more of our happiness our
unhappiness, positive or negative feelings, than
we might
ever imagine. One person's undefeatable obstacle is another
person's
stumbling block; what I see as an insult another
person may see as a funny joke.
The ways in which we react to things are usually a reflection of how we've seen them.
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There's
something special for everyone to do. Remember, no
experience is
a bad experience
unless you gain nothing from it.
Lyndon
Baines Johnson
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Perhaps
it would be a good idea,
fantastic
as it sounds, to muffle
every
telephone,
stop every
motor and halt all activity
for an hour some day to give
people
a chance to ponder for
a few minutes
on what it is
all
about, why they
are living
and what they really want.
James
Truslow Adams
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Perhaps
we only think we know where we are going as all the while we are
really
going somewhere quite different.
I have done many things in order to achieve
a valued goal only
to discover in time that the real goal my choices have led me toward
is something else entirely.
Something I could not even have known existed
when I first set
foot upon the path.
The purpose underlying life often wears the mask
of whatever
has our attention at the time.
The very reason we were born, our greatest blessing,
or our way
to serve may come into our lives looking like a new car, a chance to
travel,
or a cup of the finest coffee.
The truth is that we are always moving toward mystery
and so we
are far closer to what is real when we do not see our destination
clearly.
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If we
could read the secret history of our enemies,
we should find in each
person's life sorrow and suffering
enough to disarm all hostility.
Henry Wadsworth
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Education
is more than schooling. It is a cast of mind, a willingness to
see the world with an endless sense of curiosity and wonder.
If you would be truly educated, you must adopt this cast
of mind.
You must open yourself to the richness of your everyday experience--
to your own emotions, to the movements of the heavens and
the
languages of birds, to the privations
and successes of people in
other
lands and other times, to the artistry in the hands of the
mechanic and
the typist and the child. There is no limit to the
learning that appears
before us. It is enough to fill us each
day a thousand times over.
Kent
Nerburn
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It's not
what they do to you, it's what you do
with what they do to you, that
counts.
Jean-Paul Sartre
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Things
are only worth
what you make them worth.
Moliere
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Beware,
as long as you live,
of judging people by appearances.
Jean de
la Fontaine
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Close your
eyes and you will see clearly.
Cease to listen and you will hear the truth.
Taoist Poem
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Everyone
who terrifies you is sixty-five percent water. And
everyone you love is made of stardust, and I know sometimes
you cannot even breathe deeply, and the
night sky is no home,
and you have cried yourself to sleep enough times that you
are
down to your last two percent, but nothing is infinite, not
even
loss. You are made of the sea and the stars, and one
day
you are going to find yourself again.
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I
am sure it is a great mistake always to know enough to go in when it
rains. One may keep snug and dry by such knowledge, but one misses a world of
loveliness.
Adeline
Knapp
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An
adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered. An inconvenience is only an adventure wrongly considered.
G.K.
Chesterton
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In
order to maintain a well balanced perspective,
people who have a
dog to worship them
should also have a cat to ignore them.
Peterborough
Examiner
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One does
not need to fast for days and meditate for hours
at a time to experience
the sense of sublime mystery
which constantly envelops us.
All one need do is to
notice intelligently, if even for a brief
moment, a blossoming tree,
a forest flooded with autumn colors, an
infant smiling.
Simon
Greenberg
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Each circumstance and event, tragic or happy, is
attracted to us by what we
have been and are, and in itself offers to us, by a right reaction to
it,
the opportunity of spiritual development.
Raynor C. Johnson
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For
many years now I have listened to the stories of people with cancer
and other life-threatening illnesses as their counselor. From them
I have learned how to enjoy the minute particulars of life once again,
the grace of a hot cup of coffee, the presence of a friend,
the blessing of having a new cake of soap or an hour without pain.
Such humble experience is the stuff that many of the very best stories
are
made of. If we think we have no stories it is because we have not paid
enough attention to our lives. Most of us live lives that are far
richer
and more meaningful than we appreciate.
Rachel
Naomi Remen
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Remember,
a small trouble is like a pebble. Hold it too close to your
eye and it puts everything out of focus. Hold it at proper viewing
distance and it can be examined and
classified. Throw it at your feet
and see it in its true setting--just one more tiny bump on the pathway.
Barbara
Johnson
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Slow
down and take the time to really see. Take a moment to see
what is going on around you right now, right where you
are.
You may be missing something wonderful.
J.
Michael Thomas
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Whoever you
are, there is some younger person who thinks you
are perfect. There
is some work that will never be done if you
don't do it. There is
someone who would miss you if you are gone.
There is a good reason
for becoming better than you are.
There is a place that you alone
can fill.
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Today
the greens are greener,
the clouds are puffier,
the things that are important
are more important,
and the things that aren't
have gone way down.
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The magic that he taught me was not
confined to words; he had a way of generating in me an
excitement about things I had always taken for
granted. He might point to a bank of clouds.
"What do you see there? Colors? That's
not enough. Look for towers and drawbridges.
Look for dragons and griffins and strange and wonderful
beasts."
Or he might pick up an angry claw-brandishing blue
crab, holding it cautiously by the back flippers as I had
taught him. "Pretend you're this crab,"
he'd say. "What do you see through those
stalk-like eyes? What do you feel with those
complicated legs? What goes on in your tiny
brain? Try it for just five seconds. Stop
being a boy. Be a crab!" And I would
stare in amazement at the furious creature, feeling my
comfortable identity lurch and sway under the impact of
the idea. So the days went by.
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The
satiated person and the hungry one do not see the
same thing when they look upon a loaf of bread.
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The
enchanting, and sometimes terrifying, thing is that the
world can be
so many things to so many different souls. That it can
be,
and is, all these things at once and the same time.
Henry Miller |
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We
must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define
us.
Virginia Satir |
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Whenever
you hear anyone talking about a cultural or even about a
human
problem, you should never forget to inquire who the speaker
really is. The
more general the problem, the more the person will smuggle
his or her own
personal psychology into the account he or she gives of it.
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Yes,
it is better to look from the window than not to look at
all,
but to look through the window cannot be
compared to the
windowless sky.
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You do not have to sit outside in the
dark. If, however,
you want to look at the stars, you will find that darkness
is necessary. But the stars neither require nor demand
it.
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At
around age six, perhaps, I was standing by myself in
our front yard waiting for supper, just at that hour
in a late summer day when the sun is already below
the horizon and the risen full moon in the visible
sky stops being chalky and begins to take on
light. There comes the moment, and I saw it
then, when the moon goes from flat to round.
For the first time it met my eyes as a globe.
The word "moon" came into my mouth as
though fed to me out of a silver spoon. Held
in my mouth the moon became a word. It had the
roundness of a Concord grape Grandpa took off his
vine and gave me to suck out of its skin and swallow
whole, in Ohio.
Eudora Welty |
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It is but one
step from the sublime to the ridiculous.
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People
have the illusion that all over the world, all the time, all
kinds of
fantastic things are happening. When in fact, over
most
of the world, most of the time, nothing is happening.
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Inside
yourself or outside, you never have to
change what you see,
only the way you see it.
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Big
doesn't necessarily mean better.
Sunflowers aren't better than violets.
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They who will live for others
shall have great troubles,
but they shall seem to them small.
Those who will live for themselves shall have small troubles,
but they
shall seem to them great.
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Some people like living in black and white
worlds. Let them stay there.
Appreciate all the colors you see in your world though.
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We
live in a world of events, and our lives are affected by
these events
because of the way we see them. This is also true of
people. People are
to us the way we perceive them. Our perceptions are
based on qualities
that we are not happy with in ourselves--qualities that we
use as a means
of making a judgment.
As long as you see someone as a problem, you must remain in
these
circumstances so you can be "right" about him or
her. It is only when
you are willing to allow people to be as they see
themselves, without
your judgment, that you can free yourself from these
circumstances.
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You
can't travel the back roads very long without discovering
a multitude of gentle people doing good for others with no
expectation of gain or recognition. The everyday
kindness
of the back roads more than makes up for the acts of greed
in
the headlines. Some people out there spend
their whole lives selflessly.
Charles Kuralt
On the Road with Charles Kuralt
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One
can get just as much exultation in losing oneself in a
little thing
as a big thing. It is nice to think how one can be
recklessly lost in a daisy!
Anne
Morrow Lindbergh
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A dozen people
could carefully study a lovely panoramic view and
then draw or paint a picture of it, and the result may
reveal a dozen
different pictures with striking differences of
detail. Each person is
seeing the scene that appears before him or her with eyes
that may
be basically the same in physical anatomical
structure. However,
each person can bring a preconditioning of consciousness
that may
be unique to him or her. An unhappy person may see
things that
tend to justify his unhappiness. The pessimist may see
discouraging
signs wherever she looks. The positive person usually
seeks to find
the good in a situation. And the honest person can
find the truth in
the situation at hand and create his or her own reality.
John
Marks Templeton
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When
you look at the world in a narrow way, how narrow it seems!
When you look at it in a mean way, how mean it is!
When you look
at it selfishly, how selfish it is! But when you look
at it in a broad,
generous, friendly spirit, what wonderful people you find in
it!
Horace Rutledge
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We
can choose to see life as
a series of trials and tribulations,
or we can choose to see life as
an accumulation of treasures.
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There are things I
can't force. I must adjust. There are times when
the greatest change needed is a change of my viewpoint.
C.M. Ward |
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It
does not so much matter what happens. It is what one
does when it happens that really counts.
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Quiet time and solitude are vital to helping me keep
perspective. I
consider myself fortunate to have so
much quiet built into my profession.
I spend long
hours by myself at my easel. And while I work, I
think--of the
future, of my loved ones, of God's goodness
and the many exciting
opportunities that surround
me. I ponder the challenges I face, the
needs of
others, the direction my life is going.
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