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            | The
              difficulty we have in accepting responsibility for our behaviorlies in the desire to avoid the pain of the consequences of that
              behavior.
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                  | Life is difficult.  This is a great
        truth, one of the greatest truths.  It is a
              great truth
        because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it.  Once
              we truly know that life is difficult--once
              we truly
        understand and accept
              it-- then life is no longer
        difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact
              that
        life is
          difficult no longer matters.
 
 Whenever we seek to avoid the responsibility for our own behavior,
              we do so by attempting to give that responsibility to some other
              individual or organization or entity. But this means we then give
              away our power to that entity.
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                    | Love is the will to extend
 one's self for the purpose
 of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth...
 Love is as love does. Love is an act of will -- namely,
 both an intention and an action. Will also implies
 choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love. 
 
 It is in the whole process of
 meeting and solving problems that life has meaning. Problems are the cutting
 edge that distinguishes between success and failure. Problems call forth our
 courage and our wisdom; indeed, they create our courage and our wisdom. It is
 only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually. It is through
 the pain of confronting and resolving problems that we learn.
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                    | The truth is
                    that our finest moments are most likely to occur when
                    we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or
                    unfulfilled. For it
                    is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that
                    we are
                    likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for
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                    | Life
              is complex.  Each one of us must make his own path through
              life.  There
              are no self-help manuals, no formulas, no easy answers.  The
              right road for
              one is the wrong road for another. . . The journey of life is not
              paved in
              blacktop; it is not brightly lit, and it has no road signs. 
              It is a rocky path
              through the wilderness.
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            | If we know exactly where we're going, exactly
              how to get there,and exactly what we'll see along the way, we won't learn anything.
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            | Love
              is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only
              when theyare quite capable of living without each other but choose to live
              with each other.
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            | How
              strange that we should ordinarily feel compelled to hide ourwounds when we are all wounded! Community requires the ability
 to expose our wounds and weaknesses to our fellow creatures.
 It also requires the ability to be affected by the wounds of
 others. . . But even more important is the love that arises among
 us when we share, both ways, our woundedness.
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            | All
              my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up.Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to
 grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
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            | I am
              dubious as to how far we can move toward global community--whichis the only way to achieve international peace--until we learn the
              basic
 principles of community in our own individual lives and personal
 spheres of influence.
 
 The
              Different Drum
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            | If
              you are determined not to risk pain, then you must do without many things:  having children, getting married, the ecstasy of
              sex, the hope of
 ambition, friendship--all that makes life alive, meaningful and
              significant.
 
 The
              Road Less Traveled
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            | The time and
              the quality of the time that their parents devote to themindicate to children the degree to which they are valued by their
 parents. . . . When children know that they are valued, when they
 truly feel valued in the deepest parts of themselves, then they
 feel valuable.  This knowledge is worth more than any gold.
 
 The Road Less Traveled
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            | M.
              Scott Peck was born on May 22, 1936 in New York City, the younger
              of two sons to David Warner Peck, a prominent lawyer and jurist,
              and his wife Elizabeth Saville.  He married Lily Ho in 1959,
              and they have three grown children. 
 Peck received his B.A. degree magna cum laude from Harvard College
              in 1958, and his M.D. degree from the Case Western Reserve
              University School of Medicine in 1963.  From 1963 until 1972,
              he served in the United States Army, resigning from the position
              of Assistant Chief Psychiatry and Neurology Consultant to the
              Surgeon General of the Army with the rank of Lieutenant Colonel
              and the Meritorious Service Medal with oak leaf cluster. 
              From 1972 to 1983, Peck was engaged in the private practice of
              psychiatry in Litchfield County, Connecticut.
 
 On March 9, 1980 at the age of 43, Peck was nondenominationally
              baptized by a Methodist minister in an Episcopalian convent (where
              he has frequently gone on retreat).
 
 Peck's first book, The Road Less Traveled, was published by
              Simon & Schuster in 1978. The book has sold over six million
              copies to date in North America alone, and has been translated
              into over 20 languages.
 Peck is a
              nationally recognized authority on the relationship between
              religion and science, and the science of psychology in particular.
              In 1992 Dr. Peck was selected by the American Psychiatric
              Association as a distinguished psychiatrist lecturer "for his
              outstanding achievement in the field of psychiatry as an educator,researcher and clinician."
 
 Peck, although now "semi-retired," still does some
              management consulting to top management of organizations in the
              public, private, and non profit sectors, as well as occasional
              writing and editing.
 
 In 1984, Peck and his wife met with nine others to establish The
              Foundation for Community Encouragement, a tax-exempt, nonprofit,
              public educational foundation, whose mission is to promote and
              teach the principles of Community. The Foundation (FCE) has
              seventy selected and trained leaders who conduct workshops for the
              general public and for organizations as diverse as churches,
              schools, government agencies, prisons, universities and businesses
              - throughout the world. Although now both retired from FCE's Board
              of Directors, the Pecks continue to serve FCE in an
              "elder" status which represents the rare privilege of
 being able to give advice without having any responsibility.
 
 As a result of his pioneering community building work, Dr. Peck is
              the recipient of the 1984 Kaleidoscope Award for Peacemaking and
              the 1994 Temple International Peace Prize. In 1996 he was also
              recipient of The Learning, Faith and Freedom Medal from Georgetown
              University.
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